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TheGeibsMomMe

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Posted by TheGeibsMomMe on Aug 06, 2009 at 09:39 AM

     

Controversial Doll Lets Little Girls Pretend to Breast-Feed

Wednesday, August 05, 2009
By Jessica Doyle

A controversial new doll is leaving some parents wishing for the good old Cabbage Patch days.

A Spanish toymaker known as Berjuan has developed a breast-feeding doll that comes with a special halter top its young "mothers" wear as they pretend to breast-feed their "babies." The halter top has daisies that cover the little girls’ nipples and come undone just as easily as the flaps of a nursing bra would.

The doll — called Bebe Gloton, which translates as “gluttonous baby” — makes sucking noises as it "feeds."

Like many other dolls, Bebe Gloton can cry, signaling she wants more milk.

Although many health care providers promote the benefits of breast-feeding, parents around the world have criticized Berjuan, saying the idea of breast-feeding is too grown-up for young children -- and may even promote early pregnancy.

"That's not cool," Lori Reynolds, of El Paso, Texas, told KFOXTV.com. "No, I would never get that for my child."

But other moms said they support the product.

"I think that it’s great that people want to have a doll that promotes breast-feeding,” said Rose Haluschak, also of El Paso. “Most dolls that are purchased come with a bottle. That is the norm in society, an artificial way to feed your baby.”

Dr. Manny Alvarez, managing health editor of FOXNews.com, said although he supports the idea of breast-feeding, he sees how his own daughter plays with dolls and wonders if Bebe Gloton might speed up maternal urges in the little girls who play it.

“Pregnancy has to entail maturity and understanding,” Alvarez said. “It’s like introducing sex education in first grade instead of seventh or eighth grade. Or, it could inadvertently lead little girls to become traumatized. You never know the effects this could have until she’s older.”

Alvarez said breast-feeding reduces childhood infections, strengthens maternal bonding and increases the child’s immune system. But introducing breast-feeding to girls young enough to play with dolls seems inappropriate, he said.

“What’s next?” wrote Eric Ruhalter, a parenting columnist for New Jersey’s Star Ledger. “Bebe Sot — the doll who has a problem with a different kind of bottle, and loses his family, job and feelings of self-worth? Bebe Limp — the male doll who experiences erectile dysfunction? Bebe Cell Mate — a weak, unimposing doll that experiences all the indignation and humiliation of life in prison?

"Toy themes should be age appropriate. I think so anyway.”



 

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CandiceG

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 on Aug 06, 2009 at 10:18 AM

  

  

I'm not a fan of this doll. I completely agree with Dr. Alvarez - "Pregnancy has to entail maturity and understanding".

  

abergen

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 on Aug 06, 2009 at 10:20 AM

  

  

I find it kind of creepy.

  

lovebug66

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 on Aug 06, 2009 at 10:20 AM

  

  

Notice Dr. Alvarez works for Fox News.  Of course, he's going to find the "controversial" angle on this doll, and speculate, speculate, speculate, that pretending to nurse will make little girls want to get pregnant as soon as they are able to conceive.  Sorry, I don't buy it.

 

Without any coaching or encouragement, my own (then) three-year-old pretended to breastfeed her dolls AND stuffed animals after I had her little sister.  Children pretend to do all sorts of grown-up things they see their caregivers do (shaving, drink coffee, cook), and my child saw me and some of our friends breastfeeding babies.

Hey, Fox News, the doll is made by a SPANISH toymaker.  Spain is in Europe.  And, as most of us know, most europeans have broader views about breasts and breastfeeding. 

Personally, I'm knee-jerk uncomfortable with the idea of giving a suckling doll and a nursing top to my child - but I suspect it's just my very American hang-ups about breasts, nudity, human bodies and their functions in general  ;)   Common sense tells me that a "nursing" doll is no more likely than a "traditional" bottle-fed doll to give my children overwhelming aspirations to become teen moms.

  

jonskatharine

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 on Aug 06, 2009 at 10:29 AM

  

  

Lol, I dunno... I think breastfeeding is wonderful, and normal, and part of me is like, "Well, why not have a baby doll that is breastfed rather than bottle-fed? Is that so wrong?" But part of me has to admit that it's a little weird. I think it's one thing when a chid picks up on his/her mom breastfeeding and imitates it, and another thing when you try to get the child to imitate it with a toy designed for that purpose. Just kinda strange...

  

bellasmommy7

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 on Aug 06, 2009 at 11:09 AM

  

  

I agree that the doll is inappropriate and unnecessary. My daughter knows she was breastfed and I am due in Nov with a baby I plan to nurse as well. I have no problem with my daughter seeing me do that or even pretending to do it with her dolls when she sees me. But to buy her a doll and special top that is for the purpose of nursing is pretty dumb. She likes to take her dolls out with us when we go places, I really don't want her wearing her nursing halter to Steak and Shake and whip it off to nurse her baby. As stated earlier, it seems creepy to me as well. But I am one of those crazy...... Fox News watching mommies!



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AlexaD

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 on Aug 06, 2009 at 12:26 PM

  

  

 

  

GaFlamom

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 on Aug 06, 2009 at 12:36 PM

  

  

Uuuummm, no there is no way I would support this doll.  I didn't even read the entire article but after reading the first few paragraphs I didn't need anymore.  Pregnancy is a sacred, mature time of a woman's life that no child needs to introduced to until her mother explains to her the "birds and the bees", Aunt Flow, and everything else that falls in line to leading to having and taking care of a baby.  I do wish they would revert back to Cabbage Patch days (I still have mine to this day).  I feel society trys to push our young babygirls into young women waaaaay too soon by introducing adult things like this and then they complain about the raising stats of teenage mothers and/or single mothers. 

 


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SarahHarris

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 on Aug 06, 2009 at 01:29 PM

  

  

I am not a big fan of any of the dolls that do human like things..poo, pee, breastfeed. Let's keep our baby girls young just alittle while



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Marvelous904

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 on Aug 06, 2009 at 01:30 PM

  

  

They are doing WAYYYY too much with dolls now.  Little girls that play with dolls are not ready for this type of  conversation yet, let alone, pretend to breast feed....God knows what they're siblings and peers would say. Kids would probbaly start to pick on your child, because many little kids don't understand the maturity of what it is and why it's done.  Whatever happend to pretend bottles,bibs,potties, play food and other hygeine toys?! (thats as far as it should go)  When I took a required Child Development class in high school, we didn't even go this far. A doll should not teach sex edu anyway.  The parent should, when they know that they're kid is ready...



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jonskatharine

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 on Aug 06, 2009 at 08:41 PM

  

  

Lol, BellasMommy7!

  

 

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